i am currently watching the movie "everybody wants to be italian." it stars this cute guy, jay jablonski, who has been in love with his ex-fiancee for 8 years now even if she is already married and has 3 kids. then, with the prodding of his friends, he met marissa. she was instantly attracted to him but he, being in love with his ex, wasn't. they hung out as friends anyway. marissa was hoping that it will improve with time. they were really good together. they wanted the same things and all and they had fun with each other. it was, actually...when his ex came back to him. marissa was hurt that she went to italy. jake followed her and she was with this guy, michael...and you know what happens next. well, i don't know, it's still on.
i am writing about it because i just realized by watching this movie that whenever you want something so bad, just because you can't have it, when you finally get it, you realize that having it is not as how you imagined it to be. jake was so obsessed with the idea that his ex was his soulmate. he got crazy with that idea so that he bought a ring every year and propose to her. he did this for 8 years while she was married. of course, his ex always told him that he was crazy. then, when he finally moved on, she went back to him. then he realized that he didn't really want her anymore. i think the idea of having her back, just because he can't have her, was what made him do all those crazy things.
well, i had a very restful saturday night. just hanging around here at mae and joel's house. we went out for a bit to buy stuff, but that was it. the highlight was my relaxing dip in the tub for almost an hour with this relaxing scent from bath and body works. surrounded by darkness and relaxing music, it soothed my muscles and gave me a good night's sleep.
now, we're chillin' again. good people, good weekend.
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